Well said, Gailster.

Thank You all for the kind words, and your friendship. It means the world to me!
Love you guys!
Adele

Dear Sue…of course you do nto upset me. I know you are speaking from your heart, and have the good of everyone in mind. that’s what scares me, as I cannot see her all the time. I am lucky that Bobby is down there, and he is my eyes and ears. Plus, heather is here 4 days a week too, and poor Gary goes up and down the stairs. we are all…[Read more]

OMG, Gail= that is so funny. I can see Piper putting the makeup on greg….LOL LOL
Here is a good one. So, I get the idea to tell Tillie the doctor will come here, if she doesn’t go there, and tell her that, full well knowing it will freak her out. She cried, and said to please, please not let him come here. I told her it is her choice-…[Read more]

Hi DD
OMG, that one funny made me laugh!! Thank you- needed that.
Tillie did come up for dinner tonight. First time since last week. She didn’t stay long. That is ok, as long as she did come up, and ate.
Holy crap. Who starts to build a huge building, and then runs out of money? Not good for your city, as it would be an eye sore, and a place…[Read more]

Sue,
You are absolutely right. You have to practice tough love. It’s hard to accept that and even harder to do it. Like I said there would have been an entirely different dynamic had it been my mother instead of my MIL. You kind of become the parent and the parent becomes the child because they are no longer making reasonable well thought out…[Read more]

Adele you Mother will never listen to you. She no longer knows what is best for her so if she needs to go to the Hospital just call an ambulance. My mom would have never went if I had not just called an ambulance & had them take her. I never heard the end of it as she constantly told me I was to quick to take her to the hospital but when you have…[Read more]